This is one of my Mom's recipes. It is super easy and tastes just like the real thing minus the eggs and mascarpone!
1 c. cold water
1 (14 oz) can Sweetened condensed milk
1 large pkg. Vanilla instant pudding mix
1 (8 oz) pkg. softened light cream cheese
1 (8 oz) container light Cool whip
1 c. hot water
1/2 c. Kahlua
2 T. instant coffee granules
24 lady fingers
3 T. cocoa
Combine cold water, condensed milk and pudding mix. Chill 30 minutes. Add cream cheese. Beat. Fold in cool whip. In separate bowl, combine hot water, coffee granules and Kahlua. Quickly dip lady fingers into coffee mixture. Place dipped side down in 8x8 pan. Spread 1/2 of cheese mixture. Sprinkle 1 T. of cocoa. Repeat next layer. Chill. Serve.